Primordially, instinctively, DNA protecting, evolution promoting . . . the female cannot tolerate the male being anything less than he can be. He must be on top of his game at all times of the day. If he is not on top of his game at any one point he will see her wrath. And he does, regularly. This is a divine feminine / divine masculine dynamic. It's primal, it's instinctual. It's a woman 's instinct and duty to tell him the truth. It's his job to listen and see the the depth from where it comes. If she cares about him she will tell him her truth. If he cares about her he'll listen. If she tells the truth and he listens, he will be successful and so provide for her.